It wasn't so much of a dilemma, rather that I was looking for people's opinions.
Maybe my OP wasn't too clear, but I was asking what members feel, not what they feel that OTHERS should feel, hence my surprise at some of the borderline-condescending type replies.
There's already one forum member who snipes non-stop, but has a crew ready to shoot them down most of the time, so that's all good.
No need for others to start down that line, too.
Horses for courses, as some have said, and it's acceptable for different people to have different takes on model railways.
Again, I'm just curious as to what members feel, not what they feel that others should feel.